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"The act of tying a ribbon on a fence is sacred. If you come close to someone tying one, you can hear them quietly saying why. This is a story of hurt they are trying to find words for. When you come closer to someone tying, they speak louder and allow you to listen."
~ Paul Auchettl, survivor, reluctant advocate and a craftsman of language with a mind full of insight.
“How do we explain the ribbons to young children?”
It’s a question I’ve been asked many times over the years.
My response:
Ribbons remind big people to listen to little people.
With my background in early childhood, I’ve seen how even the smallest things, like a ribbon, can open the door to big, important conversations.
Children don’t need all the details.
But they do need to know they can speak up and that someone will listen.
Sometimes, a ribbon is all it takes to start an often tricky conversation.
About safety.
About feelings.
About what to do if something doesn’t feel right.
As parents and educators, we don’t always have the perfect words but the ribbons can help.
They help children find the words.
They help adults start the conversation.
They remind all of us what really matters.
Because keeping children safe starts with listening.
And being LOUD when it matters most.
~ Mauz Hatcher. Founder, LOUD fence
